I am constantly searching for ways to give some sort of value to you.
As the founder of VEGA I don’t want this magazine just to be about looking at naked sexy women. As much fun as that is I want it to be something more.
The first thing I want to accomplish is that men should always be respectful of women.
There are some things that aren’t respectful and just to start here are 4:
Wanting to Control women
Loving their bodies and not their souls
Using them for their bodies
Thinking you are above them and women are inferior
These things won’t get you anywhere great in life. Treat woman as equals you and you will be happier in life.
This world is missing men
The truth is we live in a society where men never grow up. We live in a society of man boys.
The sit and dream all day and all night of the things they want and then they complain the next day about not having things they didn’t earn.
Truth: The nights are for dreaming and days are for taking action.
Most men have been socially conditioned to accept their mundane Passionless life as reality and what’s expected of them. This is bullshit.
When you feel like you’re not living the life you should be you are telling yourself the truth!
Did you end up working an office job in a cubicle under blue tungsten lighting?
Did you end up depressed and hating most of your life?
Did you end up feeling like a failure?
The truth is You are not a failure. If you feel like you are it’s time to change!
My bet is that You are a good, honest hard working man.
You have valuable soul and you deserve happiness and love and respect.. once you earn it!
Still, deep inside you feel like shit. You wonder what happened and how did you get to this point in your life where they don’t feel alive.
I’m glad you feel this way because it hurts and I don’t every want you to forget how this feels. This is your strength. You know what you don’t want in life. That’s the first key to getting what you want.
Why can I say these things with confidence?
I know all of these feelings personally because I lived them.
I was the guy who I am talking about above! I was you! I would sit and dream and wish I was someone else.
Kurt Cobain was right when he said, “Wishing you are someone else is a waste of who you are.”
Part of this magazine has to be about how to live a good life. It’s has to be about how to be a gentleman. It has to be about becoming a strong, healthy, confident man.
This is not only good for you as a man but for the women around you. I don’t think any women out there is going to disagree that this world would be worse off with truly confident, more respectful gentlemen walking around.
Let’s get started!
The first things I see wrong with so many men is “You don’t understand yourself and you need to start.”
There are two parts of your mind.
The conscious and the sub conscious.
The conscious part helps us do things like what I am doing right now.. Writing this post. It helps you drive your car. It helps you choose what to eat. We all know what we do everyday and the conscious
The most important part of our mind is the sub conscious.
It’s the one who runs the show. It’s one who really decides what is going to happen in your life.
It’s the one who lets you live or lets you die..
I have friend and he’s a great guy. He’s tall. He’s handsome. He’s nice and gentlemanly and you would think by looking at him he has a lot of happiness in his life. You would think he dates a lot. He doesn’t.
I think he would if he understood his sub conscious mind.
What happens with him is deep inside he feels worthless. He feels like a nobody.
He will talk like he is really happy but his inner voice tells him different.
If your inner voice says things like:
“She will never like me.“
I’ll never have what I want”
“I wish I was him”
“She would never like a guy like me”
“No one likes me.”
You have to stop this because….
Guess what? You are wrong but You’re also right!
Pay attention to this Friend!
Something I learned along the way was women fall in love with characteristics and qualities.
Do you ever wonder how Donald Trump ended up with such a sexy wife? Come one!
I’m 100 percent positive she’s not into his comb over.
Women like a confident, powerful, successful ambitious men.
Why do they like these type of men?
Do you think a women want ever wants a weak, sad failure? Ask yourself a question:
Do you want to date a girl who is a weak sad failure and complains whines all the time?
My bet is you don’t and if you do shit! Please! Go get some professional help!
Back to Donald…. I’m not saying he has every great characteristic he should have because he does seem close-minded and narcissistic, two things you should never want to be, but if we’re honest about him, he has some great qualities. He wouldn’t be a successful business man if he wasn’t. (Let’s not bring up his presidency) Ugh!
Maybe you are wondering how you get rid of that voice in your head that’s shitting all over your life?
It’s simple but it’s not easy. (Keep reading below!)
1st: You have to accept that you have been telling yourself shitty lies for 10, 20 to 50 years.
If you eat bad food for 10, 20, 40 years it takes time to get back in shape. You don’t expect results overnight. Right? This is going to take some time.. Maybe years!
2nd: You have to start watching what you put into your mind. Maybe it’s the music. maybe it’s your friends. Maybe it’s the TV shows you watch. I recommend you find something with a good message and replace the shit with healthy stuff.
3rd. Read or listen to good audio-books. Sometimes in life you can’t find friends who are positive and up-lifting. I had this problem for a long time and so the writers of audio-books became my closest friends.
4. Start everyday by repeating these things to yourself
I am good
I am great
I love myself
I like myself
Others like me
I am lovable
I am kind
I am happy.
I smile at others
My life gets better everyday
The reason you repeat these things is because you are retraining your subconscious mind.
There is an old saying: “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.”
If you don’t retrain your brain you will end up doing the same thing over and over and I’m pretty sure you don’t want that!
Truth: You are years of what other people told you you were and you accepted it whether you like it or not. It’s time you take control of your own life and you decide who you want to be and it all starts with how you think about yourself!
If you’re bad with women, you can change that.
If you think you talk too fast, you can change that.
If you think feel depressed, you can change that.
If you hate your life you can change that!
Note: There are two types of depression, one is clinical and the other is environmental and most people have environmental depression. My bet is yours is environmental. If not go check yourself into a clinic! You need serious help!
Do these things daily for a a 3 months and you will start to see and feel changes. After 3 months you won’t want to go back to the way you used to live and you will want to do these things for the rest of your life.
You don’t have to believe me. You don’t have to do them. You can go on living the way you are. It’s your choice because it’s your life but if you want a better life maybe it’s time to take a little chance and give it a shot.
There is no excuse not to do these things but the consequence of not doing these things is a wasted life. It’s your life and it’s your choice.
All these things you can do for free. You can do all these things by yourself, in your own time and just 10 minutes a day is a good place to start.
What do you have to lose? What is the downside of trying these things? Not much.
I hope every one of you have all the success and love in life that your future self lets in. We all deserve a good life but really, the only ones who get it earn it first.
Founder of VEGA Magazine.
All the Beautiful women featured in this post are the models in our magazines! I thank them all and I thank the photographers who shoot for VEGA Magazine. I am one luck dude! I know the greatest people and I get to call a lot of these photographers and models friends. Thank you for reading this and if you feel this can help you please share it with your friends. My goal is to make this world a better place and it starts with me and next it goes to you! Do your part too!